celticnoodle
I agree with you, Barleywine. I think it is better to give the truth to the customer coming in for a reading and when I do see things that look rather bleak and awful, I try to do deliver the information as kindly as possible.
Its never easy to hear the bad things, but at least the person is prepared for it (hopefully) and can as a result deal easier with this. It doesn't always happen, even for me--as I've been told of bad things coming my way and thought I was prepared to deal with it until it occurs and a few times I was still really knocked down by it. Those are readers that I hold on high--because I know that they will tell the truth as they see it in the cards and so I will continue on with them as a customer and pay more attention to the things they tell me.
As for my own customers--I can only hope they will be the same way. I have to tell them what I see and try to deliver the harder parts of the message to them as kindly as I can. If it does come to be, I can only hope that they are prepared to handle it and get pass it all and remember that "wow! she saw that in her reading!" and continue to search me out for their readings. If they can't do that--*shrugs* its their choice and I don't worry about that either. I'd rather be as truthful about what I see then to just tell them what they hope to hear.
Its never easy to hear the bad things, but at least the person is prepared for it (hopefully) and can as a result deal easier with this. It doesn't always happen, even for me--as I've been told of bad things coming my way and thought I was prepared to deal with it until it occurs and a few times I was still really knocked down by it. Those are readers that I hold on high--because I know that they will tell the truth as they see it in the cards and so I will continue on with them as a customer and pay more attention to the things they tell me.
As for my own customers--I can only hope they will be the same way. I have to tell them what I see and try to deliver the harder parts of the message to them as kindly as I can. If it does come to be, I can only hope that they are prepared to handle it and get pass it all and remember that "wow! she saw that in her reading!" and continue to search me out for their readings. If they can't do that--*shrugs* its their choice and I don't worry about that either. I'd rather be as truthful about what I see then to just tell them what they hope to hear.