cayacia
Hey guys. I didn't really know where to post about this one but I figured since I post in here the most it would have to do. I hope no one minds a long story but I need to get this out there.
In case some of you havn't noticed, I have a friend named Josh that has probably been one of the most influential people in my life. He was also the one who gave me an outlet into the spiritual journey I've been going on the last four or so months.
Anyway, I've actually known Josh for well over a year now because we had English together last year. I've always felt this closeness to him for no reason and before I got to know him really well this last summer I went thorugh a very painful period of trying to figure out why it was so important for me to pursue someone I didn't even know very well. (I had a crush on him. I hate that word, but that's what you call it, I guess) You can't understand what it is to try and give up on getting to know someone that won't let you get close to them. Expecially when you don't know why it's so damn important. You see, other than a couple of times, I couldn't get together with him outside of school to get to know him. He was distant.
Anyway, I got to know him better this summer because after a month and a half of not thinking of him at all, I had a dream about him. It was really confusing because I thought at that point I was over him and that I could move on. I knew someone was trying to tell me something, so I gave him a call and things went on from there. We hit it off immediately and became very close (but only as friends ) and eventually I mentioned my interest in the Tarot. He gave me one of his old decks and then I was offically his protoge'.
After school started I had already fallen for him again only this time it felt a lot more real. I talked with a lot of my friends and they all suported me to tell him how I felt. Quite nervously I managed to tell him and we had a talk about it. Of course, he already knew because he's quite perceptive. However, he told me that because of past relationships he wasn't ready for another one and he told me to give it a few months. Best of all, he told me he would help me through it (because he obviously knew the pain of not getting what you want in these cases) I managed to ask him how he felt about me and he told me that he felt like i was 'one of his pack' as in he'd known me in a former life, and that that should mean something to me. It strange that I've been thinking about that since and I'd had that feeling before but had always brushed it off as nonsense.
Anyway, (again) it's been quite some times since then. We're closer than ever, however he is a very hands-off teacher and I don't know if that's really what he is suposed to be for me. Or if that's what I want from him exclusively (scratch that, I know I want him as something more). I do readings regularly to see a further perspective of what is going on between us because I get very depressed at times when I don't understand what is going on. And when I worry that he is sick of me or annoyed by me (of course worry and reason battle this one out endlessly). And they're usually quite positive! I just always have that anxiety.
So...do I really have a question here? I know I had one when I planned to post this. And I guaruntee I've left something out. I guess I would just like some insight. Oh, now I remember. When I'm not around him I think about him quite a lot. It becomes frustrating at times and I think it's partially what triggers a bout of depression. It's also when I start having doubts about what we are and if we could ever be anything more. Does anyone have a suggestion that could control it? I'm sure a lot of things I've tried (like doing something that won't remind me of him....etc.)
Thanks for letting me chew your ears off!
In case some of you havn't noticed, I have a friend named Josh that has probably been one of the most influential people in my life. He was also the one who gave me an outlet into the spiritual journey I've been going on the last four or so months.
Anyway, I've actually known Josh for well over a year now because we had English together last year. I've always felt this closeness to him for no reason and before I got to know him really well this last summer I went thorugh a very painful period of trying to figure out why it was so important for me to pursue someone I didn't even know very well. (I had a crush on him. I hate that word, but that's what you call it, I guess) You can't understand what it is to try and give up on getting to know someone that won't let you get close to them. Expecially when you don't know why it's so damn important. You see, other than a couple of times, I couldn't get together with him outside of school to get to know him. He was distant.
Anyway, I got to know him better this summer because after a month and a half of not thinking of him at all, I had a dream about him. It was really confusing because I thought at that point I was over him and that I could move on. I knew someone was trying to tell me something, so I gave him a call and things went on from there. We hit it off immediately and became very close (but only as friends ) and eventually I mentioned my interest in the Tarot. He gave me one of his old decks and then I was offically his protoge'.
After school started I had already fallen for him again only this time it felt a lot more real. I talked with a lot of my friends and they all suported me to tell him how I felt. Quite nervously I managed to tell him and we had a talk about it. Of course, he already knew because he's quite perceptive. However, he told me that because of past relationships he wasn't ready for another one and he told me to give it a few months. Best of all, he told me he would help me through it (because he obviously knew the pain of not getting what you want in these cases) I managed to ask him how he felt about me and he told me that he felt like i was 'one of his pack' as in he'd known me in a former life, and that that should mean something to me. It strange that I've been thinking about that since and I'd had that feeling before but had always brushed it off as nonsense.
Anyway, (again) it's been quite some times since then. We're closer than ever, however he is a very hands-off teacher and I don't know if that's really what he is suposed to be for me. Or if that's what I want from him exclusively (scratch that, I know I want him as something more). I do readings regularly to see a further perspective of what is going on between us because I get very depressed at times when I don't understand what is going on. And when I worry that he is sick of me or annoyed by me (of course worry and reason battle this one out endlessly). And they're usually quite positive! I just always have that anxiety.
So...do I really have a question here? I know I had one when I planned to post this. And I guaruntee I've left something out. I guess I would just like some insight. Oh, now I remember. When I'm not around him I think about him quite a lot. It becomes frustrating at times and I think it's partially what triggers a bout of depression. It's also when I start having doubts about what we are and if we could ever be anything more. Does anyone have a suggestion that could control it? I'm sure a lot of things I've tried (like doing something that won't remind me of him....etc.)
Thanks for letting me chew your ears off!