Carla Isaacs
Carla, what a horrible and unfortunate experience you had with this so called Medium. Unfortunately there are people who themselves are not experienced or fit enough to have the title of Medium. There are many phonies out there.
l would urge you to still seek out another Medium, try to get one with recommendations. Do you have Spiritual churches in your area, these are churches where they have a little service and have a guest medium to give an address. They would definitely recommend a proper experienced Medium.
Failing that google up some addresses of Spiritual Associations/colleges where they may be able to give you the name of someone who can help you.
I did contact this guy through precisely such a centre. He was also reccomended by someone I trust very much who had had a very positive experience with him. When we first spoke, he told me that I had incredible psychic abilities, much more powerful than I was aware of. Anyway, he was going to help me keep them under control. The hell he did. I even called an exorcist afterwards.