PentQueen
I've been lucky in that most my friends have fallen in love with Tarot and divination thanks to me being somewhat open about working with the cards. So cards are just another aspect of what we incorporate when we're together. Food, TV, good discussion, readings and looking through the artwork of my decks- the makings of a perfect girls night
I do pay attention to friends' beliefs before I come out about my interest. Might just be my history but, for example, I have a friend that likes to pray before exams. I have no issue with it and have been more than happy to pray with her, but I wouldn't dare bring up tarot or my spiritual beliefs because there's a good chance she won't be comfortable with it. Why risk it and a good friendship? Sure you may question the depth of our friendship if she wasn't able to get over that aspect of me, but I don't mind focusing on other things we have in common at all. Just like some find it good to avoid topics like politics around friends.
Thanks for this...I can't see myself ever keeping any of my beliefs or interests under wraps, and I would never expect the same of anyone else...doesn't matter if you're Christian, Atheist, whatever, I will accept you, and I would hope the same for those who I consider friends! It sounds like you've accepted your friend for her beliefs, why wouldn't she accept you for yours, if she was a genuine friend?