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A friend and former lover who I've been trying to distance myself from reached out and invited me to an political event he's organizing. With any other person, former lover or not, I would take this as a sign of truce and interpersonal improvement, but with him it's usually a wild card as to how things will go. He's constantly hot and cold with me, and frankly I'm over it.
As of the other day, I had finally come To the conclusion that he doesn't care for me on any level and I felt comfortable having no direct contact with him ever again. I still have no intention of going down this road with him--I'm sad to lose the connection completely, but I'm tired of the high school-style drama--but I was curious to get some clarification from the cards. I have a feeling they're going to tell me what I'm already suspecting.
So asked the cards what are his intentions in inviting me? What does he want?
Present: 8 of Coins
-he's working hard on the political campaign. Very busy.
Challenge: Empress Rx
-he's Not feeling sexy or desired? Wants my attention? If read upright, he sees me as sexy and desires that?
Recent past: 10 of coins Rx
-Relationship with gf lacking in the bedroom? Some shakiness in his relationship?
Near future: 5 of coins Rx
-any resuming of our past entanglement will only result in spiritual poverty and deprivation between us--mainly for me as I have more to lose.
Above: 2 of swords
-foolish balancing act on his part. Maybe he's still playing the game? Having trouble communicating?
Below: 8 of wands Rx
-sexual energy between us has cooled. Whatever possibilities were up in the air before has decidedly settled due to his actions.
Self/advice: 6 of wands
-he is feeling triumphant in his accomplishments. Feeling bold and confident? Thinks he can win this one?
Environment: 5 of swords Rx
-Continual negative tension between us. I'm throwing in the towel and walking away.
Hopes/fears: the sun
-he hopes that something will come out of me coming to the event? That I will return despite how terrible he's treated me?
Outcome: ace of wands Rx
-new Sexual relationship that doesn't quite happen. Delays.
With no friendship cards appearing and lots of wands, I guess it's safe to say that he isn't interested in evolving the connection to a friendship in any capacity.
I'm really doing this reading not because I'm interested in him, but rather human behavior. He's an odd duck--I've never met someone so unpredictable.
Thanks!
A friend and former lover who I've been trying to distance myself from reached out and invited me to an political event he's organizing. With any other person, former lover or not, I would take this as a sign of truce and interpersonal improvement, but with him it's usually a wild card as to how things will go. He's constantly hot and cold with me, and frankly I'm over it.
As of the other day, I had finally come To the conclusion that he doesn't care for me on any level and I felt comfortable having no direct contact with him ever again. I still have no intention of going down this road with him--I'm sad to lose the connection completely, but I'm tired of the high school-style drama--but I was curious to get some clarification from the cards. I have a feeling they're going to tell me what I'm already suspecting.
So asked the cards what are his intentions in inviting me? What does he want?
Present: 8 of Coins
-he's working hard on the political campaign. Very busy.
Challenge: Empress Rx
-he's Not feeling sexy or desired? Wants my attention? If read upright, he sees me as sexy and desires that?
Recent past: 10 of coins Rx
-Relationship with gf lacking in the bedroom? Some shakiness in his relationship?
Near future: 5 of coins Rx
-any resuming of our past entanglement will only result in spiritual poverty and deprivation between us--mainly for me as I have more to lose.
Above: 2 of swords
-foolish balancing act on his part. Maybe he's still playing the game? Having trouble communicating?
Below: 8 of wands Rx
-sexual energy between us has cooled. Whatever possibilities were up in the air before has decidedly settled due to his actions.
Self/advice: 6 of wands
-he is feeling triumphant in his accomplishments. Feeling bold and confident? Thinks he can win this one?
Environment: 5 of swords Rx
-Continual negative tension between us. I'm throwing in the towel and walking away.
Hopes/fears: the sun
-he hopes that something will come out of me coming to the event? That I will return despite how terrible he's treated me?
Outcome: ace of wands Rx
-new Sexual relationship that doesn't quite happen. Delays.
With no friendship cards appearing and lots of wands, I guess it's safe to say that he isn't interested in evolving the connection to a friendship in any capacity.
I'm really doing this reading not because I'm interested in him, but rather human behavior. He's an odd duck--I've never met someone so unpredictable.
Thanks!