With all due respect to everyone including Umbrae, I don't like the dishonesty of it all. Why not be honest with a sitter and say, "My old deck wore out. I've been reading for 30 years and they finally just came apart so it was time for a new deck."? Or "I lost my deck in a major accident so I had to get a new one." ? Or,---whatever is true? I think a sitter respects that more than artifice and---let's face it---artificially aged decks look artificially aged. If your sitter looks at this artificially aged deck and recognizes it for what it is, are they going to believe anything else about you is really sincere? Since it's all about the sitter, why not have enough respect for them not to play games?
Whatever happened to "The magic is in you, it's not in the deck?" As for putting a sitter at ease because the deck looks like it's been well used, it wouldn't put me at ease seeing an artificially aged deck. But what would put me at ease is a reader who was sincere and honest from the start.
I have a lot of decks. Some are used a lot----because I have used them a lot. Some are like new because I haven't used them a lot. I'll read for anyone with any of them without apology and without artifice. If a deck is new---like my BBCats, for instance---I'll just say, "I was given this deck as a gift by a dear friend recently and I find I get excellent results with it so I thought I'd share the gift by using it to read for you this time."
This isn't directed so much at thorhammer, who said she did it just for fun, as it is about the aging bit in trying to put a sitter at ease.
I've said in the past that I'd feel more comfortable seeing a deck that's obviously been used and that's the truth. But in that case I was referring to people who think they have to keep their decks absolutely pristine and will buy a new one if they get a little bit of grey on the edges.
Aging a deck to make it easier to shuffle and easier to use is one thing, but to make it look older to fool a sitter when it isn't is another.