ThunderWolf
I love the CC! It's my go to spread!
I don't read for myself often anymore, but when I do I still prefer the CC. I think the problem you're having with it is not the CC but rather detaching from the results in order to be more objective. That's the hardest part about reading for ourselves.
In this particular case I think it might be better to go with smaller spreads as was suggested. By the time you've invested all that emotion and energy into the question then invested in a ten card reading you can be...well...pretty invested in the outcome.
Besides, if you're doing a shorter reading that's less time you have to spend in a detached state. If you'd like to use the CC maybe you could practice being detached with a smaller reading and gradually work up to that.
I don't read for myself often anymore, but when I do I still prefer the CC. I think the problem you're having with it is not the CC but rather detaching from the results in order to be more objective. That's the hardest part about reading for ourselves.
In this particular case I think it might be better to go with smaller spreads as was suggested. By the time you've invested all that emotion and energy into the question then invested in a ten card reading you can be...well...pretty invested in the outcome.
Besides, if you're doing a shorter reading that's less time you have to spend in a detached state. If you'd like to use the CC maybe you could practice being detached with a smaller reading and gradually work up to that.