I was surprised
Always take people with a grain of salt. I haven't been told anything that's hurt my feelings (and I'm extremely sensitive to harsh words), but it's all about focusing on what you do and what you love. It doesn't matter what other people think. I dress up in a purple and green coat with gold threads all through it, my hair in curls with the big golden earrings, the bangles, bold make up, a head scarf, you name it - because it helps me focus and have fun what I do. I'm proud of myself, and you should be too. I don't have children, but I told my boyfriend if I did, I'd teach them Tarot and Pendulum work at a young age so they understood it. I'd teach them that it's okay being weird and different because we're all different. My difference growing up made it difficult yes, but now I embrace it.
I have really bad social anxiety, the worst thing ever said to me was "is this boloney?" and "it must be hippie night." both of which I just ignored and carried on to what I was doing, focusing on the cards and the person in front of me. Most people will think what they'll think, and it's important to remember that they don't matter - what matters is what you think, how you feel, and what you think is best for you.
I've been lucky in my journey though, I've met good friends and had great experiences with my Tarot journey. I hope you do too.
