Anastacia
interesting perception of the King of cups, but I don't see him that way. When I think of a king, I think someone in control, someone of power, a leader who is strong even in the moments of chaotic turbulence. So when I see the King of cups I think, someone who is in control of the emotions, and/or someone who approaches the situation with a calm and rational effect.
Yes there are lots of different ways to see the Kings - but a calm and rational King of Cups? He has turned up quite a lot for a relative who was having issues with depression - the emotional state was ruling not only that person's life, but the lives of those around as they did their best to care.