Saskia
I don't want to slam your reading abilities but are you absolutely sure you've picked the message right from the cards? You seem to have done a lot of predictions and clearly on matters you are heavily and emotionally invested in.
It's incredibly easy to see the best outcome in the cards (hopes directing the interpretation) when in fact, it was only a weak yes or even neutral or negative. Also, time frames with tarot are notoriously difficult so if you've asked "will I relocate"(for example) and got yes - you didn't, believed it was wrong - and will relocate in 5 years time because you only asked yes or no, not with any timeframe.
There are a myriad of possibilities: one of them is that the cards were not correct. But the others being: you interpreted them incorrectly, or gave away your power by not taking action and just waiting for an outcome, or didn't take into account someone else's actions and free will, etc.
It's incredibly easy to see the best outcome in the cards (hopes directing the interpretation) when in fact, it was only a weak yes or even neutral or negative. Also, time frames with tarot are notoriously difficult so if you've asked "will I relocate"(for example) and got yes - you didn't, believed it was wrong - and will relocate in 5 years time because you only asked yes or no, not with any timeframe.
There are a myriad of possibilities: one of them is that the cards were not correct. But the others being: you interpreted them incorrectly, or gave away your power by not taking action and just waiting for an outcome, or didn't take into account someone else's actions and free will, etc.